LET ALONE IT IS ALSO PROPER MANNERS to Listen to People. AND IT TURNS THE PERSON WHO IS DOING THE LISTENING INTO A GREAT CONVERSATIOALIST, And INTO A FRIEND.
San Diego Plumber Talks about the road were people will Hate, Ignore you, Despise you, Just DON'T LISTEN to People.
But LOOK IF YOU WANT PEOPLE TO SEE YOU AS AN EGOTIST. SELF-CENTERED, BAD MANNERRED PERSON, AND YES EVEN HATE YOU. OR IGNORE YOU, THEN ALL YOU HAVE TO DO IS NOT LISTEN TO PEOPLE FOR VERY LONG WHEN THERE TALKING. OH AND JUST CONSTANTLY INTERRUPT THEM. AND JUST TALK AND TALK. ABOUT WHAT YOU WANT TO TALK ABOUT. AND YES NEVER EVER STOP TALKING ABOUT WHAT YOU WANT OR CARE ABOUT. REMEMBER TO ALWAYS TALK ABOUT ONLY WHAT YOU WANT TO TALK ABOUT!!
(WHAT ARE THE CONSEQUENCES OF NOT BEING A GOOD LISTENER?? IS IT REALLY WORTH IT, IS IT??)
San Diego Plumber Mentions HOW to Acquire LASTING FRIENDSHIPS, AND BEING KNOWN AS A GREAT CONVERSATIONLIST.
But if you want PEOPLE TO Look at YOU as a FRIEND, a Great Conversationlist? Then Search for or find out what they like to do there hobbies. TALK ABOUT WHAT THEY LIKE. If YOU WISH TO BE A GREAT CONVERSTIONALIST, FIRST BE AN ATTENTIVE LISTENER!! TO BE INTERESTING FIRST BE INTERESTED. ASK QUESTIONS THAT OTHERS WILL ENJOY ANSWERING. ENCOURAGE THEM TO TALK ABOUT THEMSELVES, AND THEIR ACCOMPLISHMENTS.
San Diego Plumber Mentions A Great LISTENER Sigmund Freud.
ONE OF THE GREAT LISTENERS WAS SIGMUND FREUD. A person who met Freud described his manner of LISTENING. "He had Qualties, I had never seen in any other man. Never Had I seen such CONCENTRATED ATTENTION. There was NONE of that Piercing Soul, or a Penetrateing Gaze.
His Eyes Were Mild and Genial. His Voice was Low and Kind. His Gestures were Few. But the ATTENTION he gave was, His Appreciation of What I said, Even When I said IT Badly, was extraordinary. YOU'VE NO IDEA WHAT IT MEANT TO BE LISTENED TO LIKE THAT."
Lincoln once during the Civil War asked a friend to visit him in Washington. He said he had some problems he wanteed to discuss. So his friend went to Washington and met with Lincoln . They met for hours, afterwards he sent his friend back home.
Althiough Lincoln had not even asked for his OPINION in the problems which faced LINCOLN. SOMETIMES WE JUST WANNA GET THINGS OF OUR CHEST. (HE WANTED A FRIENDLY SYMPATHIC LISTENER TO WHOM HE COULD UNBURDEN HIMSELF).
San Diego Plumber acquires more Friends and Sales.
I have found that when I practice GOOD LISTENING SKILLS, People are more receptive, I sale MORE, And instead of just being my customers, they BECOME REALLY GOOD Friends. (SOME EVEN TO THE POINT AS FEELING THERE A BROTHER, or Sister:)
REMEMBER PEOPLE ARE A HUNDRED MORE TIMES INTERESTED IN THEMSELVES, THEIR WANTS, THEIR PROBLEMS.
P.S. Please follow along as we review (will review a chapter every 3 or 4 days or weekly) the book How to Win Friends and Influence People. Thank You GOD Bless.
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