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San Diego Plumber Asks? Have you read HOW To Win Friends and Influence People? Part 3 Chapter 9. What Everybody Wants.

9/18/2012

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San Diego Plumber Asks? Have you read HOW To Win Friends and Influence People? Part 3 Chapter 9. What Everybody Wants. For you to  Be Sympathetic With there Idea's and Desires.

Dr. Arthur I. Gates wrote in his book Titled Educational Psychology. "Sympathy the Human Species Universally Craves. The child eagerly displays His Injury; or even inflicts a cut or bruise in order to reap abundant sympathy. For the same purpose adults.... show their bruises, relate their accidents, illness, especially details of surgical operations. 'Self-Pity' for misfortunes real or imaginary is some measure, practically a universal practice."
 
So If You Want to Win People to Your Way of Thinking remember to practice, Be Sympathetic With Other's Person's Ideas and desires.

How Would You Like to Have A Magic Phrase that Would Stop Arguments, Eliminate ill Feeling, create Good Will and Make the Other Person listen Attentively?  OK HERE IT IS.
   " I Don't Blame you one Iota for Feeling as You Do. If I were You I Would Undoubtedly Feel just as You Do."

See if your the other person you would feel just as he/she does. Of course if given certain facts, one being if you had inherited the same body and temperament, and mind that John Doe had and you had been raised in the same environment and experiences.

You would be pretty close to that persons reactions and or feelings, given that all these other factors were present and similar then you too would be similar if not the same.

"For there for the Grace of God go I" Yes when you go walking, driving along the street and you see a street person, Remember, "For there for the Grace of God go I". Yes society is always thirsty for sympathy, GIVE IT TO THEM, and they will LOVE YOU.

There was once this elevator repair man (Jay Magnum) who was going to take 8 hours, to do maintenance on a hotel elevator and basically the elevator would be inoperable. Although the Manager (Rick) wanted the repair man to take only 2 hours. So as not to inconvenience his patrons.

So the elevator man  thought what he could say so he sympathized with the Manager and put himself in the position of the manager, and said "Rick I know your hotel is quite busy and you would like to keep the escalator shutdown time to a minimum. I Understand Your Concern about this, and we want to do everything possible to accommodate you. However, Our Diagnosis of the situation shows that if we do not do a complete job now, your escalator may suffer more serious damage and that would cause a longer shutdown. I know You do Not Want to Inconvenience Your Guests for Several Days."

And then there is a story about a Piano Instructor who was going to teach a young girl but unfortunately she had long beautiful fingernails which made her piano learning much more difficult so the Piano Teacher waited for the right time after her first lesson he mentioned to her that if she wanted to do her best in learning to play the piano, long fingernails would be difficult to learn with.

The following week she had trimmed her fingernails. The Piano teacher put himself in her place and sympathized with the young girl and realized although she had beautiful nails and she really liked them, she would never be able to learn very well how to play the piano with long fingernails.

P.S.  Please follow along as we review (will review a chapter every 3 or 4 days or weekly) the book How to Win Friends and Influence People.  Thank You GOD Bless.

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San Diego Plumber Asks? Have you read HOW To Win Friends and Influence People? Part 3 Chapter 8. Try Honestly to see things From the Other Person's Point of View.

9/2/2012

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San Diego Plumber Asks? Have you read HOW To Win Friends and Influence People? Part 3 Chapter 8. Try Honestly to see things From the Other Person's Point of View.

I dare to say it could be called more of a selfless act when we are not just thinking of the benefits to oneself, or in which way we are to gain from him or her.

If we actually place our selves in the other Person's shoes, (albeit if even for a few moments) for it is said until you have walked in a an other's shoes for a mile you do not know what that person is really going through. (through sacrifice is sometimes when we gain the most)

 But abstaining from the obvious imprudence of walking in an other's shoes, truly what does it take or rather the sacrifice(s)? The endurance of that person, is not really known till we become aware of the failures, and or of their triumphs and yes sufferings of ANOTHER TILL WE DARE WALK IN AN OTHER'S SHOES FOR A MILE. (easier said than done)

In this story of a man who worked in a office calling people about their debts, (collections). This woman had been called by this collection agency for failure to pay on time, (she was six weeks late). While she had been left, a rather tough message more like a threat that if she didn't make her car payment on Monday they were going to go pick it up. 

Well so when Monday arrived and she was called about the payment, she decided to place herself in the other's shoes , and she realized that he was just doing his job.

So anyways on this call she apologized for not making the payment, and said to the collections agent that she must be the most difficult person, AND THAN THE COLLECTIONS AGENT BASICALLY STARTED TALKING ABOUT HOW SOME PEOPLE WERE ACTUALLY VERY RUDE WITH HIM. AND HE THAN SAID if SHE PAID $20 BY THE END OF THE MONTH AND PAID THE REST WHENEVER SHE COULD WOULD BE FINE. 

In his book Getting through to people, Dr. Gerald S. Nirenberg commented: "Cooperativeness in Conversation is achieved when you show that you consider the other Person's Ideas and Feelings as Important as Your Own. STARTING Your Conversation BY GIVING the OTHER PERSON the PURPOSE or DIRECTION of YOUR CONVERSATION, governing what you say by what YOU WOULD WANT to Hear IF YOU WERE the LISTENER, and accepting his or her view point will encourage the listener to have an OPEN MIND to YOUR IDEAS."

San Diego Plumber Mentions a Husband Wife Relationship.
In a incident with a man and his wife the man (Mr. Douglas) realized how foolish he had been when he would tell his wife about spending so much time on the lawn, because unfortunately every time he would tell her about this he didn't realize how much joy it would bring her.

But then one day after dinner she invited him to join her and he started helping her with the gardening and they spent and hour in pleasant conversation. After that he would always compliment her on doing such a fantastic job on the gardening; the result a happier relationship.

San Diego Plumber Quotes Kenneth M. Goode "How to Turn People Into Gold"
In Kenneth M. Goode's book titled "How to Turn People Into Gold". "Stop a minute to contrast your keen Interest in Your Own Affairs with your mild concern about anything else. Realize then, that everybody else in the world feels exactly the Same Way! Then, along with Lincoln and Roosevelt, You Will Have Grasped the solid Foundation for Interpersonal Relationships; Namely, that a Success in Dealing With People Depends on a Sympathetic grasp of the other person's viewpoint"

In conclusion For real wisdom and Insight is gained through Placing One self in Their Shoes, In order to See from Their Point of View or Perspective.

P.S.  Please follow along as we review (will review a chapter every 3 or 4 days or weekly) the book How to Win Friends and Influence People.  Thank You GOD Bless.

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