There is an Old Eastern saying which states "Hatred is never ended by Hatred but by LOVE" LOVE IS THE ANSWER!!
San Diego Plumber Quotes Ben Franklin.
BEN FRANKLIN used to say,
"If you ARGUE and Rankle and Contradict, you may Achieve a Victory Sometimes, But it Will be an Empty Victory Because You Will Never Get Your Opponent's Good Will.
San Diego Plumber Quotes Abraham Lincoln.
Lincoln wrote, " No man who is resolved to make the Most of Himself, can spare time for personal contention. Still less can He Afford to Take the Consequences, Includeing the Vitiation (to Make Bad) of His Temper and the Loss of Self-control." (you Loose time on Anger, and Contention.)
In a story of a man who took Carnegie's Course Mentioned that He had been argueing with a Tax Inspector over a nine Thousand dollar bad debt that had never been collected. So then instead of argueing he changed his mind and said "So I Decided to Avoid Argument, change the subject, and give him Appreciation.
He sincerly complimented on How he must run across so many interesting taxation matters. And the Inspector began talking about his work, and the the intereasting fraud cases he had come across. And He talked about his children, and as he was leaving, he said he would let him know later. Which he later notified him that the paperwork would stay as the person had said.
Then there is the story about a Mr. Ohare (a car salesman) who had attended the course. And wondered why he could hardly sale a car. After talking with Mr. Carnegie a awhile he realized that he was very argumentitive, and Yes While he might of told people off about the bad Competion's Vehicle's, (The other Dealerships Bad points) he would rarely get sales.
Mr. Ohare became one of the best Salesman in the New York Area for that dealership. How, Well he resolved When someone would mention the competion he would say "The Whose it Truck, If you Buy the Whose it truck you'll never make a mistake.The Whose-Its Are made by a fine company and Sold by Good People".
"He is Speechless then. There is no Room for Arguement. If He Says the Whose-It is Best and I say Sure It Is. He Has to Stop. He Can't keep on All Afternoon Saying. "It's the Best When I'm Agreeing with Him. We then get Off The Subject of Whose-it and I Begin To Talk About The Good POINTS of His Dealership Truck."
AND HOW MANY MORE STORIES COULD BE WRITTEN ABOUT ARGUEING.. Maybe the TIMES WHEN ARGUEING HAS LOST YOU A SALE, FRIEND, A FAMILY MEMBER. I GUESS THAT IS WHY GREAT POLITICANS AND STATESMEN HAVE ALWAYS USED DIPLOMACY. (The ART of NEGOTIATING Between Different Parties, esp Between Differnt Countries.) Or Rather by LISTENING and putting yourself in their shoes. By BEING MORE AGREEABLE. LESS CONFRONTATIONAL INSTEAD OF ARGUEING AT THE DROP OF A HAT, BUT RATHER SEE IT FROM YOUR OPPONENTS SIDE OR ANGLE?
FOR THE GRACE OF GOD THERE GO I.
BE MORE AGREEABLE
The Only Way to Get the Best of An Argument is to AVOID IT.
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