San Diego Plumber Asks? Have you read How to Win Friends and Influence People? Part 3 Chapter 2. Show Respect for other people's OPINION'S.
"NEVER SAY YOUR WRONG".
San Diego Plumber Quotes SOCRATES, Ben Franklin, and Carl Roger's.
SOCRATES said "One Thing I Know, and That is That I know Nothing."
Ben Franklin said, "I MADE IT A RULE, To FORBEAR all direct CONTRADICTION to the sentiment of others, and all positive assertion of my own. I even FORBADE Myself the USE of Every Word or Expression in the language that Imported a fixed opinion, such as 'certainly', 'undoubtedly'. etc. and I ADOPTED instead of them, I 'CONCEIVE' 'I Apprehend', or 'I Imagine. (The Proper Translation and in the Context Given. That This expression, Was Said Over 200 Years ago. 'I Apprehend', Possibily means "I Suppose" in today's Grammatical Meaning).
Carl Roger's (The Psychologist) wrote in his Book On Becoming a Person. "Our First Reaction to most of the Statements (which we hear from other people) is an evaluation or judgement, rather than an Understanding of it. When someone expresses some feeling, attitude or belief, our tendency is almost immediately to feel "that's Right", or "That's Stupid", "That's Abnormal" or That's Incorrect". Very Rarely do we permit ourselves to UNDERSTAND Precisely the MEANING of the Statement is to the PERSON".
So IF SOCRATES, Could SAY Such A THING, (To Basically NEVER tell PEOPLE THEIR WRONG) WHAT is it of US, for Myself I CERTAINLY WOULD NOT PROFESS TO KNOW MORE THAN THESE MEN.
Ben Franklin who would never say your WRONG. And so if these MEN neglected from telling someone directly YOU are WRONG, who am I to do otherwise.
San Diego Plumber Mentions New Strategy or Changing of TACTICS.
THERE'S MAJIC in Such Phrases as "I MAY be wrong. I FREQUENTLY am. Let's EXAMINE the FACTS." INSTEAD of Saying YOUR WRONG."
"I MAY be wrong. I FREQUENTLY am. Let's EXAMINE the FACTS." INSTEAD of Saying YOUR
WRONG.
In Other Words, DON'T ARGUE with Your Customer or Your Spouse or Your Adversary. Don't tell them they are Wrong, don't get them Stirred Up. USE a LITTLE DIPLOMACY.
P.S. Please follow along as we review (will review a chapter every 3 or 4 days or weekly) the book How to Win Friends and Influence People. Thank You GOD Bless.
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"NEVER SAY YOUR WRONG".
San Diego Plumber Quotes SOCRATES, Ben Franklin, and Carl Roger's.
SOCRATES said "One Thing I Know, and That is That I know Nothing."
Ben Franklin said, "I MADE IT A RULE, To FORBEAR all direct CONTRADICTION to the sentiment of others, and all positive assertion of my own. I even FORBADE Myself the USE of Every Word or Expression in the language that Imported a fixed opinion, such as 'certainly', 'undoubtedly'. etc. and I ADOPTED instead of them, I 'CONCEIVE' 'I Apprehend', or 'I Imagine. (The Proper Translation and in the Context Given. That This expression, Was Said Over 200 Years ago. 'I Apprehend', Possibily means "I Suppose" in today's Grammatical Meaning).
Carl Roger's (The Psychologist) wrote in his Book On Becoming a Person. "Our First Reaction to most of the Statements (which we hear from other people) is an evaluation or judgement, rather than an Understanding of it. When someone expresses some feeling, attitude or belief, our tendency is almost immediately to feel "that's Right", or "That's Stupid", "That's Abnormal" or That's Incorrect". Very Rarely do we permit ourselves to UNDERSTAND Precisely the MEANING of the Statement is to the PERSON".
So IF SOCRATES, Could SAY Such A THING, (To Basically NEVER tell PEOPLE THEIR WRONG) WHAT is it of US, for Myself I CERTAINLY WOULD NOT PROFESS TO KNOW MORE THAN THESE MEN.
Ben Franklin who would never say your WRONG. And so if these MEN neglected from telling someone directly YOU are WRONG, who am I to do otherwise.
San Diego Plumber Mentions New Strategy or Changing of TACTICS.
THERE'S MAJIC in Such Phrases as "I MAY be wrong. I FREQUENTLY am. Let's EXAMINE the FACTS." INSTEAD of Saying YOUR WRONG."
"I MAY be wrong. I FREQUENTLY am. Let's EXAMINE the FACTS." INSTEAD of Saying YOUR
WRONG.
In Other Words, DON'T ARGUE with Your Customer or Your Spouse or Your Adversary. Don't tell them they are Wrong, don't get them Stirred Up. USE a LITTLE DIPLOMACY.
P.S. Please follow along as we review (will review a chapter every 3 or 4 days or weekly) the book How to Win Friends and Influence People. Thank You GOD Bless.
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